Tea Obreht famous quotes

When men die, they die in fear", he said. "They take everything they need from you, and as a doctor it is your job to give it, to comfort them, to hold their hand. But children die how they have been living - in hope. They don't know what's happening, so they expect nothing, they don't ask you to hold their hand - but you end up needing them to hold yours. With children, you're on your own. Do you understand?
-- Tea Obreht

#Jobs #Children #Men

At the end of the day, despite all the other great things that literature does in society and in a person's life, I think that we read to escape. And I think that place, more than anything, provides that escape quickly, if an author is engaged with the place.
-- Tea Obreht

#Thinking #The End Of The Day #Literature

The dead are celebrated. The dead are loved. They give something to the living. Once you put something into the ground, Doctor, you always know where to find it.
-- Tea Obreht

#Doctors #Giving

We're all entitled to our superstitions.
-- Tea Obreht

#Superstitions

death should be celebrated...when you put something in the ground you always know where it is
-- Tea Obreht

#Should

In the end, all you want is someone to long for you when it comes time to put you in the ground.
-- Tea Obreht

#Long #Want #Ends

Wash the bones, bring the body, leave the heart behind.
-- Tea Obreht

#Heart #Body #Bones

Suddenness," he says. " You do not prepare, you do not explain, you do not apologize. Suddenly, you go. And with you, you take all contemplation, all consideration of your own departure. All the suffering that would have come from knowing comes after you are gone, and you are not a part of it.
-- Tea Obreht

#Knowing #Suffering #Departure

Come on, is your heart a sponge or a fist?
-- Tea Obreht

#Heart #Fists #Sponges

When your fight has purpose—to free you from something, to interfere on the behalf of an innocent—it has a hope of finality. When the fight is about unraveling—when it is about your name, the places to which your blood is anchored, the attachment of your name to some landmark or event—there is nothing but hate, and the long, slow progression of people who feed on it and are fed it, meticulously, by the ones who come before them. Then the fight is endless, and comes in waves and waves, but always retains its capacity to surprise those who hope against it.
-- Tea Obreht

#Hate #Fighting #Attachment

Everything necessary to understand my grandfather lies between two stories: the story of the tiger’s wife, and the story of the deathless man. These stories run like secret rivers through all the other stories of his life – of my grandfather’s days in the army; his great love for my grandmother; the years he spent as a surgeon and a tyrant of the University. One, which I learned after his death, is the story of how my grandfather became a man; the other, which he told to me, is of how he became a child again.
-- Tea Obreht

#Running #Children #Lying

What inspires me most to write is the act of traveling.
-- Tea Obreht

#Writing #Inspire

My road to publishing actually came through a colleague who connected me to my agent, and the faculty at Cornell was very supportive.
-- Tea Obreht

#Supportive #Agents #Faculty

My family lived in Egypt from 1993 to 1996.
-- Tea Obreht

#Egypt #My Family

In the mess of moving from place to place, I skipped two grades in the space of one year.
-- Tea Obreht

#Moving #Two #Space

When you're in a place, the details you focus on are different than details you focus on when you're writing about it.
-- Tea Obreht

#Writing #Focus #Details

A lot of writers that I know have told me that the first book you write, you write about your childhood, whether you want to or not. It calls you back.
-- Tea Obreht

#Book #Writing #Childhood

Being taken seriously, for a young writer, is a wonderful form of encouragement, but at the same time, I don't think one should ever feel like attempting a kind of artistic endeavor is beyond your scope just because of age or inexperience.
-- Tea Obreht

#Encouragement #Taken #Thinking

For me it was a lot harder to come to terms with the death of my grandfather than it was to come to terms with what's happened to the former Yugoslavia.
-- Tea Obreht

#Yugoslavia #Grandfather #Term

In terms of people that I know, my grandmother and my mother are huge influences on my writing life because they are both massively supportive and always have been of my career.
-- Tea Obreht

#Mother #Writing #Careers

When I hit a block, regardless of what I am writing, what the subject matter is, or what's going on in the plot, I go back and I read Pablo Neruda's poetry. I don't actually speak Spanish, so I read it translation. But I always go back to Neruda. I don't know why, but it calms me, calms my brain.
-- Tea Obreht

#Block #Writing #Brain

When I was eight years old, I wrote a paragraph-long short story about a goat on my mother's hundred-pound, black-and-white-screen laptop. The story came about largely because I liked the way the word 'goat' looked on the page, but I decided then and there that I wanted to be a writer. That desire never changed.
-- Tea Obreht

#Mother #Black And White #Eight

I've always written about animals. I'm still trying to process why that is.
-- Tea Obreht

#Animal #Trying #Process

I think the mythology of death really ran away with me when I was very young.
-- Tea Obreht

#Thinking #Young #Mythology

My mother always says that fear and pain are immediate, and that, when they're gone we're left with the concept, but not the true memory.
-- Tea Obreht

#Mother #Pain #Memories

No matter how grave the secret, how imperative absolute silence, someone would always feel the urge to confess, and an unleashed secret is a terrible force.
-- Tea Obreht

#Silence #Secret #Matter

In my earliest memory, my grandfather is bald as a stone and he takes me to see the tigers.
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#Memories #Grandfather #Stones

My grandfather and I were very close.
-- Tea Obreht

#Grandfather #My Grandfather

You never know what's going to happen in your life, and you never know what's going to happen in someone else's life either.
-- Tea Obreht

The best fiction stays with you and changes you.
-- Tea Obreht

#Fiction

A family has its own rituals and its own superstitions.
-- Tea Obreht

#Superstitions #Ritual

At the end of the day, it's about the reader's attachment to and belief in the magical elements that make or break magical realism.
-- Tea Obreht

#Attachment #The End Of The Day #Elements

I do no writing while I'm in Belgrade visiting my grandma.
-- Tea Obreht

#Grandma #Writing #Belgrade

I grew up in Cyprus and Egypt, these fantastic places I remember fondly.
-- Tea Obreht

#Egypt #Cyprus #Remember

I like dark subject matter. I'm not sure what that means about me!
-- Tea Obreht

#Mean #Dark #Matter

I am very interested in place, and the influences of place on characters.
-- Tea Obreht

#Character #Influence